The Bokenham Family
This line is relevant to our family because:
Bokenhams comprised a small number of families. By the end of the 18th century,
they had become fairly well-to-do, and they've been well-researched. The name
has several variants, including Buckingham and Buckenham – which is the
name on a Georgian building in the middle of Southwold.
This page draws on the work of many researchers, and particularly Geoff Clarke,
who in turn benefited greatly from information from Dr D. Buckingham of Majorca
in the early 1990s. See also this Bokenham
back to the mid-1500s, provided by Patrick Hanson-Lowe, of South London.
(To find Anthony
Jacques Cheeper, search for Libbis, halfway down
the document). According to the James Maggs diary
compiled during the early 1800s, several Bokenhams were mariners and at
least two Thomas Bokenhams were lost at sea.
This page extracts only that fraction of the Bokenham tree that is relevant
to the subject of this web-site, i.e. the direct lines of our forebears,
the other Thomas Bokenhams who create the potential for confusion in the record.
David Meredith of Nottingham UK, the husband of a 4th cousin through the line
of George Libbiss Bokenham (1807-1862), made contact in February 2012, and provided
the sale ads for the 'The Swan' in 1856 and 1857.
In July 2013, Roz Gray emailed to me that her G6M was Rebecca Bokenham (c.
1696-1765), b. Fressingfield Suffolk, m. John Daniels in 1725, d. Fressingfield.
(Fressingfield is 19 miles west of Southwold, whereas our line during the period
1750-1825 was in or close to Southwold). Rebecca's parents were John Bokenham
and Ann Smith
(so c. 1670-1730). Our G6F
that the correspondent
was a 6th, 7th or 8th cousin, perhaps once removed.
Roz continued: "Rebeccas grandfather was a John Bokenham born
1646 in Fressingfield, Suffolk and married a Mary Lock in Risby in 1667 their
son John the father of Rebecca was born that year. There was also a Bokenham
family in the village of Syleham near Fressingfield which I am currently researching
the possible links to and hopefully can follow the line back to pre Norman
conquest to the Suffolk Bokenhams linked to Edward the Confessor, possibly
he or his family bestowed lands upon as they were related
in some way to his mother Queen Emma of Normandy".
So there's a chance that the Anglo-Saxon-Celtic blood is complemented by a
little from Viking-Norman 'nobles'. But don't get too excited. For those of
us who are second cousins to one another, Anthony Jacques Cheeper is one of
forebears (2 to the power of 3). Whereas a Norman
be one of 2 to the power of 36, i.e. one of about 4,000 36th-generation forebears.
There is an unproven line back through successive William Bokenhams in that
corner of Suffolk, 1656-1752?, 1631-?, 1602-1671 – gentleman, 1576-1632 – attorney,
preceded by a Thomas d. 1623. The tree below begins where it appears to be authoritative.
William Buckingham/Buckenham (c.1715-1751)
b. c. 1715
m. 1 Jun 1740, Elizabeth Rud, Reydon, Suffolk
William was a Tanner
William d. 6 Oct 1751, so aged c. 35?
- Elizabeth Buckingham (1741-?)
b. 9 Aug 1741, Yoxford, Suffolk
- Margaret Buckingham (1743->1762)
chr. 2 Sep 1743, Yoxford
m. William Sheldon, 17 Oct 1762, Reydon
- William Buckenham (1749-1788?)
chr. 27 Mar 1749, Yoxford
m. Mary Julian, 17 Feb 1771, Reydon
Drowned 26 May 1788?, so aged 39?
7 children, including:
6.   Thomas Buckenham (1784-1832)
chr. 10 Dec 1784, Southwold
Mary was b. 1783
Mary bur. 5 Mar 1827?, so aged 43?, Southwold
Thomas bur. 31 Mar 1832, so aged 47, St George in Ex, London,
They had 5 children, including:
3.   Thomas Buckenham (1814?-1836)
b. c. 1814
drowned 28 Sep 1836, so aged 22
- Thomas Buckingham (1749-1827?)
b. 1749, chr. 13 Jul 1752, Yoxford, Suffolk
m. 28 Aug 1771, Southwold, Suffolk
m. Mary Evelin
Mary was b. 1747
Mary d. 15 Mar 1825?, so aged 78, Southwold, Suffolk
Thomas d. 17 Oct 1827?, bur. ? Oct 1827?, so aged 78, Southwold, Suffolk
- Mary? Bokenham (1772-?)
chr. 13 Jan 1772
- Thomas Bokenham (1774-1846)
chr. 18 Apr 1774, Southwold
There are no Bokenhams in the Southwold Poll Book for 1790.
This may imply that Thomas' father had moved there and/or was not a person
m1. Sarah Libbis(s), 11 May 1798, Southwold (or 6 May
1797, in nearby Reydon?)
Sarah was b. 1776
Children 1-10, b. 1799 to 1820.
Thomas was a Clothes Manufacturer.
This was still early in the industrial revolution, so Thomas may have
At some time prior to Oct 1819, he was at the New Swan Inn, Southwold.
In Oct 1819, so aged 45, he moved from the New Swan Inn to the Old Swan
Sarah d. 6 May 1821, so aged 45.
m2. Elizabeth Gibbons, a widow, 30 Jan 1825, in Melton
Constable (50 miles north)
Elizabeth was b.1780, so aged 45 at the time.
According to a
local source, "In 1818 The Swan was bought by Thomas Bokenham
who also built a grand house, which stands to this day, next door to the
Swan for his family. However, he sold the brewhouse to the local maltster
William Crisp and it was under Crisp that the Sole Bay Brewery became
famous. 1872 saw the arrival into town of George and Ernest Adnams from
Berkshire who bought the Sole Bay Brewery with the help of their father".
On 22 May 1836, Thomas bought the pilot boat 'Jubilee' , at auction, for
The Old Swan Inn, now the Crown, taken October
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The New Swan Inn, now the Swan Hotel.
The Post Office is on the left.
Presumably the 'grand house' is on the right.
The ground floor is currently the hotel dining room
Adnam's Brewery, with the back of The New
visible at the end of the lane
On 11 Oct 1841, Thomas hired the house next door, later the Town Hall,
for Stg 31/10/-.
On 8 Mar 1845, there was a sale of 40 gallons of brandy seized from Thomas
by the Excise.
Elizabeth rem. Edmund (Gibbons?), 1 Oct 1857, Southwold.
|Thomas owned the Old Swan Inn from 1819 until his death on 31 May 1846.
He would have been 72, and was described as Innkeeper, bur. 24 Jun
Elizabeth ran 'The Swan' for a further 10 years, until 1857, by
which stage she would have been 77.
David Meredith found two sale ads, in The Bury and Norwich Post,
and Suffolk Herald, Wed 3 Dec 1856, p.1, Issue 3884 (19th Century
British Library Newspapers: Part II), and in The Ipswich Journal,
Sat 13 June 1857, Issue 6162
Elizabeth bur. 6 Dec 1868, so aged 88.
| There's also a Buckenham House, diagonally opposite The New Swan:
- ?Lucy Bokenham (1799-?)
b. May 1799, Southwold
- Mary Ann Bokenham (1800-1827)
b. 27 May 1800, Southwold (we originally had her as 1804)
Baptised Independent in Southwold
m. Simon SPICER, 8 Jan 1825
At St Boltolph without Aldgate, London
Simon was b.1797
2 children, the first presumably born prior to her marriage
Mary Ann d. Apr 1827 (we originally had her as 9 Feb 1828)
- William Bokenham
- Sarah Elizabeth Spicer
- William M. Bokenham (1803-1876)
b. 1 Sep 1803, chr. 22 Sep 1803, Southwold
m1 ? in c. 1822, child 1, b. 1823
m2 Clarinda Clifton-Bokenham (1812-1898), 17 Feb 1835, in St Luke
Old Street, Islington
Clarinda was b. 1812, in Great Yarmouth
Controller of Money Order Office, St Martin le Grand, London
They lived in Islington, then Stoke Newington
William was bur. 1876, so aged 73, Yarmouth
Clarinda was in her young son's household in 1891, aged 79
Clarinda d. Sep 1898, Hackney 1b 305, aged 86
William and Clarinda had children 2-12, from 1836 to 1855, incl.:
3.   Clarinda Bokenham (1837-1917)
b. 1837, Islington
In the 1881 census, a nun, a Sister of Mercy, aged
Her young cousin, Catherine
Cheeper, subsequently also became a nun.
They were in the same location in 1891 (Shoreditch).
Clarinda was there again in 1901 and 1911, but Catherine
had moved on
Clarinda d. Jun 1917, Shoreditch 1c 126, aged 80
11. Charles Hugh Bokenham (<1850->1891)
b. 1850, Islington
In the April 1881 census, at 56 Darville Rd, Hackney
(inner north-east London)
His younger cousin, Catherine
Cheeper, was governess, aged 20
In the 1891 Census, Charles is at the same address,
again as Head of household
Also his mother, an elder brother, three elder sisters,
and a cousin, all 'of means'
- Jane Bokenham (1805-1852)
b. 7 May 1805 in Southwold
m1. Anthony Jacques Cheeper, 1825, Southwold
Among the witnesses were her father and her sister Charlotte and Sophia?
8 children, of whom only 3 survived childhood
Anthony d. 1837
Here are details of this
line (which is the one of direct relevance to this web-site)
m2. Charles Teakle
3 further children. A separate page provides information
on the Teakle step-family
Jane d. 1852
- Thomas George Libbiss Bokenham (1807-1835?)
b. 1807, Southwold
d. 1835?, so aged 28?
- George Libbiss Bokenham (1807-1862?)
b. 16 Feb 1807, chr. 20 Mar 1807, Southwold
m. Susannah Diver, Reydon, c. 1828-40?
Susannah d. 22 Nov 1850, so aged c. 40?, Islington
George d. 5 Nov 1862?, so aged 55?
- Thomas Bokenham, b. c. 1830-40?
- Sophia Bokenham (1808-1889)
b. 1808, Southwold
m. Samuel Gayfor, Walberswick (just south of Southwold)
d. 31 Oct 1889?, so aged 81?
- Sarah Bokenham (1810-?)
b. 22 Jul 1810, Southwold
- Emily Bokenham (1812-?)
chr. 25 Jun 1812, Southwold
- Eve(r?)line?/ Eme(r?)line / Evelin Bokenham (1820?-1826?)
b. 1820?, Southwold
[Sarah would have been 44 by this time]
bur. 18? Feb 1826?, so aged 6?
- John Bokenham (177X-1780)
bur. 5 Jul 1780, Southwold
- Elizabeth Bokenham (1784-1864)
chr. 3 Feb 1784, Southwold
d. 4 Jan 1864, so aged 79, Southwold
- Sophie Bokenham (1786-1873?)
chr. 25 Jun 1786, Southwold
d. 22 Jan 1873?, so aged 86, Southwold
- John Bokenham (1791-1848)
chr. 2 Feb 1791, Southwold
m. Patience Spoore?, 11 Apr 1825, Walberswick, Suffolk
John d. 11 Oct 1837, so aged 46, Southwold
Patience d. 1848, so aged c. 55?
- William Bokenham (1795-1797)
b. 29 Jul 1795, chr. 3 Aug 1795
bur. 3 Nov 1797, so aged 2, Southwold
We're missing a lot of information; and we'd love to
This a page within Roger
Clarke's Family Web-Site
Contact: Roger Clarke and/or Anne
Created: 8 November 2009; Last Amended: 9 November 2009, 6
April 2010, 7 Feb 2012 ('Swan' sales ads), 6 Jul 2013, 22 Mar 2013 (Mary Ann
Bokenham details from Liz Nathan)